Vuur’s Raid Leading Style – Explained with examples
Topic: ZA|Raid leading is a very delicate balance. On one hand- you want to win. On the other hand if someone is bringing down the raid you have to get them to fix it. My current favorite topic is my one pally healer. Now 100% Flash of light used to work just fine on boss fights. Keyword here is USED to.
All of a sudden we’re in ZA and fighting the lynx boss or the bear boss in bear form and the doesn’t just hit like a mack truck. They are a mack truck on a down hill slope with no brakes repeatedly smacking my tanks.
We just went from healing 101 to healing 201 for advanced content because we’re planning on moving past ZA at some point. I have been trying to explain this concept to my healer. Really I have, I have tried being nice, I have tried explaining it and he wasn’t getting it. He was 100% FoLing on bear form of the bear boss and I sent him a whisper saying I need you to vary your spell casts to get better heals off.
What do I see but
S**** is now ignoring you.
< — very angry warlock.
You may tell me you disagree, we may have a reasonable conversation about it but if I’m raid leading and you signed up for MY raid and volunteered to come, I AM THE BOSS. If you /ignore me, that is the fastest way to become #1 on my Do Not Invite To Raids List.
If you think you are a genius, you can raid lead. Otherwise shove it, suck it up and don’t stand out as the bottom heal/dps/threat gen by enough that I have to point it out to you and we will be fine.
I do my best to not humiliate people in front of the raid, but if you’re causing wipes, you’re going to get some of my wrath until you fix the issue. If all is going as expected I am calm. I am not as mean or rude as some of my fellow RL’s in guild, but if I ask you to do something multiple times, I expect either a friggen awesome reason you are not complying or a ration explanation of why you disagree. During the raid is not the best time to argue either. There’s lots going on. If you’re not prepared to step up and take over, take a seat in the back and enjoy the ride.
Luckily his brother plays too, I hate using siblings against each other but I tried to pull him into a private channel to speak to him, he didn’t want to hear it. So I played dirty and sent his bro over to talk to him with the message “S – If I ever catch you doing 100% FoL on a boss fight again I will kick you from my raid so help me god.”
(I double checked with the brother to see if he thought I was being too rude and was basically told “no, you’ve been telling him this for a while. He’s stubborn. If you don’t get mean to him he won’t change” so i felt a little better about myself)
He flipped out on me a little and decided to talk to the “REAL pally healers” instead of me since I apparently am not a good source of information on this. The real pally healers were given a heads up and were able to explain to him that a greater spell rotation is needed on the bosses that hit extra hard. They were able to explain it so he understood ( which is something we have been trying to explain to him for WEEKS now).
I received another apology from him and apparently he was better in the Kara raid this weekend but ……………………that has been a few weeks of pain.
The worst part is, he is not the only one that needs training. I do not have the time OR the patience to do that for everyone. I am one person, I am trying to coordinate 10 people, not babysit 2.
/roar
We’ll get there. It can just be amazingly frustrating at times because there is nothing aside from a /raid kick that will get it through to people that I am serious and most of the time I don’t have enough people online to be super picky about who I bring.
I still wouldn’t give up RL’ing, I’m just trying to be a little more patient…but just a little because I have high hopes and expectations.
I’m better now. I promise.
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Now if we can just get that to stick, we will be in much better shape. *note to all whom were in the TS channel last night – he apologized to me for his outburst later in the night*
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